China's top ten of the most controversial issues

Although the sexual attitudes in China have been issued a research focus and a hot topic, but to be refined, at present, from the nature of academia discuss birth to great changes, but also the emergence of knowledge can not at once unified, theory, controversy over big question is largely a lot of new issues. Becomes a response to these problems the measures taken by more the following 10:

1, pairs of students Otherwise talk about contraceptive knowledge

Some people think that there is no need to talk about, talked about will induce more young people having sex, but more people believe that it is necessary speaking, since the pre-marital sex and unwed signs are everywhere, then talked about contraceptive knowledge can be as much as possible to reduce unwed pregnant and abortion, on entering the honeymoon period for young people to carry out appropriate contraceptive knowledge and education is absolutely necessary that many of the countries and regions carried out in secondary schools involved in sexualDelivery, contraception, abortion and other content of sex education, such as Japan began from the kindergarten sex education, sex education in Taiwan has been moved up to upper primary grades, it would at least reduce the babies, are conducive to protecting the physical and mental health of young people.

2, masturbation is harmful to

Some people think that masturbation harmful, but more people consider appropriate masturbation harmless, from all "sex civilization" survey showed that, at the survey, there are over masturbation accounted for 39%, while the universities, the proportion of male and female university students masturbation were 59% and 16.5% respectively. Golden West, the United States report that 92% of the total U.S. population, people who have had self-stimulation to achieve orgasm, Golden West, and asserted: "We have every reason to believe that those on the lower incidence of study must be distorted because of the investigation . " This is because many people believe that masturbation is a shameful thing, even to be punished, so the recognition of its concerns, indeed, the human impact of masturbation is not only physical but also psychological, 1000 For centuries, conventional wisdom is that masturbation is "evil" is "harm" body, "the drop of semen, ten drops of blood," loss "Yuan Yang", it is difficult Zhongtian years. This "masturbation terrorist theory" point of view of the great pressure on young people's ideas, but also non-scientific, from a scientific point of view, from the practical results, we can not non-scientific propaganda "masturbation terrorist theory", we can not unconditional promotion "masturbation sound theory" is becoming excessive harmful, but should run its course, and strengthen guidance.

3, menstruation, pregnancy, postpartum ability ofAC

As a rule, generally do not advocate sex menstrualPay, because the women at this time of endometrial shedding, fresh wound surface lining of the uterus, uterine mouth slightly open, if the nature ofCross dirty, it will cause bacterial infection, resulting in endometritis or pelvic inflammatory disease, sometimes cause bleeding, in recent years, some scholars believe that as long as the nature ofCleaned before the genital pay attention 365 days a year can be ofAC catamenialCross can not consider pregnancy, vaginal lubrication, and some men, like the sight of blood. However, the Chinese family health conditions can not be applied mechanically Western life style, menstruation, or a non-sexualDelivery is appropriate, especially women, through a large blood a few days, should be prohibitedPay.
Pregnancy sexCross it is not promoted as usual, but nine months of pregnancy, male asexual life of their sexual tension can be imagined, in addition to advocating sex between husband and wife with the edge of the process to replace the purpose of having sex outside of sexual behavior, but also Intermediate 4 months during pregnancy, that is to avoid the three-month and three months after the beginning of the appropriate for the locationCross, this time with regard to sexualCross movement should be gentle on the stomach can not stress, may take place under the bed on the male or female, under-or post-position plug.
The question whether the sex life on the puerperium, Shanxi on 125 cases of women's sexual psychology and sexual behavior during pregnancy analysis showed that arise from the nature of puerperalCross-situation, they will have a strong interest in sex, genitals good recovery, sexThe overall level of desire to hold a high point, when the sexualAC One is deep feeling of sexualLove caused by sexual impulses, the other in her husband's sexual dominance and sexual possession, under obedience, but the former is the main addition, the investigation also showed that low level of education, and engaged in manual work of the puerperiumA high incidence of delivery, while the educational level high, while engaged in a low incidence of mental work, the traditional argument is that women had a baby after 60-80 days, less than a resumption of pre-natal state of reproductive organs, the body is not to the normal level of health, coupled with breastfeeding, the body consumes more, it should try not to sex life. Especially during the recovery period, uterine cavity between the form of secretions in order to lochia discharge from the vagina in vitro, partial resistance is low, when premature sexualPay more susceptible to bacterial infections, leading to lesions.

4, oral sex is dirty

From the National "sex civilization" survey data, male college students sex partners accounted for 12.5% of all male and female students accounted for 6.3% of sexual partners, they started sexThe average age of paying 18.41 percent year-old, of which many people have genital - mouth contact with sexual behavior, and their average age was 17.10 years, with same-sex genital? Mouth contact accounted for 0.4%. For a long time, oral sex, also known as Kouyin, was considered "dirty" "inferior" sex, but foreign scholars think that oral sex is "healthy, useful and beautiful" and that as long as the deep feelings of husband and wife Tuk, both physical health, women's vaginal inflammation, men's mouth no ulcer, oral sex between husband and wife is justifiable, as long as both sides feel pleasure and joy, its society, others are non-self-injury, it should not be condemned, and some scholars even believe that women's genitals Rinse mouth cleaner than the men than the genitals clean hands clean and wash, the Western countries the proportion of couples have oral sex high, reaching about half the number of people, some middle-aged husband and wife, when the men out of impotence when to perform oral sex as sexA prelude to pay, is a middle-aged men erectile make a way, because my health condition is also a lack of showers, the proportion of women inflammation of the vagina rather than rural women, urban women, reaching 44% or so, so oral sex make love approach in China also vary, neither strongly advocated, nor dismissed as "indecent" "inferior", this is only a healthy love between husband and wife for one of the normal way.

5, masturbation tools, and whether the sale of drugs

At present, over 30 years old unmarried man, of about 9.9 million by the year 2000 there will be 50 million nationwide bachelor, and now Beijing has singles and 60 million, Qingdao, there were 42 million of these people how to solve the problem of hunger, sexual way out? FromComfort is an important way, but since theWei tools have no place to buy, so that there were many alternatives, neither of Health also brings a danger. There is a recent development of a physician called as soon as possible since theWei tools out in the consignment, which is a concrete measure of social stability. As ofDrugs currently on the market quite a number of impotence, premature ejaculation drugs, but the improvement of the quality, the promotion of sexualFor sexualMedicine is also no public sale, but the Sino-Burmese border, Sino-Laotian border is a very fair trade sales. Myanmar, reflecting the boss, there are many of the mission personnel in the Mainland to have purchased, female students are particularly enthusiastic to buy, we can see people are needed. Why is the production needs of the people we do not sell, hand, for foreigners to make money, so fake cheat our money? In the past, husband and wife sex life is mainly to male fertility health women, stretching for future generations but now is mainly to meet the physical and psychological needs of couples, from birth culture into pleasure-seeking culture, which need to be developed to improve sexual pleasure of tools and no side effects of drugs a.

6, between husband and wife can not see the nature of science, education, video

In recent years, China has been an anti-vice, is prohibited without permission manufacturing, selling yellow video, many countries did the same thing, but the husband and wife in order to enhance knowledge, improve sexual quality of life, produced by the relevant scientific research departments that reflect the couples ofCross-body posture and sexual knowledge, sexual science and video, is very necessary. Truly "not suitable for children", specifically for couples ofPay to watch, or married couples school screening, or in the sexual dysfunction clinic watch, this is also can be gradually done. Should learn to distinguish in practice, obscene, pornographic and scientific boundaries, which refers not only to video and other video products, but also scientific books, but also should be allowed to openly published.

7, homosexuality count criminal

For a long time in China, there are many people who regard homosexuality as a criminal act, at least moral hazard, quality bad, but scientific research shows that homosexuality produce bio-genetic, bad environmental impact, psychological variation, and many reasons, should not be any return it as a crime, to be specific conditions, for others, such as voyeurism, friction addiction, transvestites and other acts of sexual perversion should also be cautious to adopt a scientific attitude, with particular attention to judicial practice, do not sign, it is necessary do not hesitate to the fight against crime, hooliganism, but also have abnormal sex differentiation abnormality.

8, the existence of love affair whether it is reasonable

Some people think that there is a reasonable, since the affair, "Pong shoulder child" phenomenon to go out to all, but increasing, it would prove that it is an objective need, existence is necessary. Others believe that because of the existence of love and marriage, separation, death of kin, marriage, divorce is difficult and tortuous nature, it is difficult to adjust to the feelings of husband and wife free sex and external sexual, heterosexualInteraction Wai narrow, and closed and other factors, the situation is difficult affair disappeared, the key should be properly guided. Some people think that male and female contacts can be divided into four classes: the opposite sex, extramarital feelings, love affair and the "third party." A knot in the opposite sex can be promoted and treasure extra-marital feelings, being wary of love affair, to promote progress and development and voluntary non-injury to the moral principles of interaction between men and women strive not to harm the public mood, not to harm other people's families, without harm to physical and mental health, not to harm ImplicitPrivate right should not be built on their own happiness on other people's pain. Survey shows that with the "third party" last married the proportion of only 17%, while the real happiness is only 5%. With the wealth of material life, social interaction increases, increases people's spiritual needs, the expansion of exchanges between men and women is imperative to a good grasp of interaction between men and women the "degree", give full play to the opposite sex friends and the positive effect of extra-marital passion , to promote exchanges between men and women in loose and tolerance, appears to be the future of social development, interpersonal relations a new topic.

9, prostitutes could open and legalized in

Some Western scholars have pointed out should be made of prostitutes into the open, legalization, thereby reducing sexually transmitted diseases, in fact, as early as 1989, the world interested parties on initiatives to legalize prostitution, and organized various countries carry out regular medical examinations of prostitutes, listing service system, our country and some Scholars have also proposed the establishment of "sex zone," or "sexual services classification management" problems, they might be a good starting point, but such problems are very complicated, if implemented, open prostitution, legalized, there is a great may be so ugly worsen the phenomenon of prostitution, even though parts of ancient China and the pre-liberation history has been prostitutes, but in some countries and regions in the world, "smokeless industry" has not really developed abatement or reduction of sexually transmitted diseases, as well as in the community problems, sexual crimes, and so this is not feasible at this stage in our country at least, only advocate a positive, healthy, fresh sex culture is wise.

10, older widows living together according to the law could

Cohabitation has become a trend for men and women in Western countries, mostly by default, but in China and the folk customs of traditional moral constraints, non-marital cohabitation was considered immoral at worst, heavy is the illegal acts. But the survey shows that China's very high proportion of elderly widows, different areas are up to 1 / 3 or 1 / 2 or so the saying goes: "old age are accompanied by a blessing," "children and grandchildren are not husband and wife arrived in a half-bed," scientific research has repeatedly shown that the elderly have sexDesire and sexuality. But the elderly remarriage is very difficult, mainly children, opposed to, can not allow more than 60-year-old care of each other, cohabitation without marriage certificate collar, there is no inheritance and the burden of their children's problems? Reform and opening up has expanded in various areas, only the reform of marriage and family system are long overdue, in order to improve the quality of life of older widows so that they have another physically and does not involve a complex series of family relations, property , the Chinese scholars have put forth some societies so that they can "legally cohabitation" bold vision and construction, it has been endorsed by a lot of insight.